Have you been asked this question about being “ready” for having more children? I’ve noticed that when I had just one child, the question was, “Are you ready for another one?”. Now that I have two, it’s switched to, “Are you done or do you plan to have more?”. Of course, the way that these questions are asked makes a huge difference. Danielle from More Than Four Walls talks about the mindset behind the negatively asked questions.
“Why do people talk about children like this? Like they are burdens?
I hear this most often from people who actually have children…
Having children is like touching heaven. It’s a glimpse of God’s goodness.”